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Sunday 8 September 2013

How To Turn A Girl On Properly

By Esme Chau


Turning a girl on is harder than it sounds. Men must be willing to put in the time and effort to make the situation ideal. Everything matters, from the environment to how you caress her cheek. Keep in mind that girls want attention more than anything. If you make a girl feel good, then they will be more than willing to make you feel even better. With women, turning them on may be a little more difficult but as soon as you get them to that point they will be all fired up. Here are some tips that can help you ignite the fire within her.

The Prep Talk. Now I know this may be difficult for guys to get into, but when you realize how much pure heat you can create you'll realize how to turn a girl on effectively. The prep talk should consist of brief mentions regarding something about the girl, say, the clothes or jewelry she's wearing, how nice her hair looks, or even how cute her shoes are (many girls are shoe freaks and love it when someone makes mention of the shoes they wear). But just one or two things very briefly. Don't go overboard and make it obvious. When you comment on one thing it tends to stand out. When you comment on her from head to toe it gets too obvious and even creepy.This is the prep, and it'll make it a lot easier for the heat to get turned up later.

Hot Pillow Talking. Now this takes place during the beginning stages of intimacy. Not right away, but a few minutes in. This consists of brief whispers commenting for example on how pretty the girl is, but doing so in a more intimate and sensual manner, than the prep talk. Essentially it's like taking the prep talk and pumping it with a mild steroid. Increasing the compliments slyly and slowly, again don't over do it, just nice, soft, and easy. You'll be amazed at how well this can work. They love to hear how pretty and beautiful you think they look. I know for a fact this is important as I've been flat out busted in the past when girls have actually told me, after the fact, how in the future it'd be real nice to hear these kind of things from me! So dudes, put the game face on, and let your emotional side come out in a complimentary, turned on manner!

Foreplay is probably the number one way to turn a woman on. Most women don't even get to experience foreplay. I know people are in a hurry these days but denying women foreplay is not going to get you any brownie points. Just touching her and kissing her is a good start but then try pulling away from her. Get a little fantasy thrown in there or better yet ask her if she has any fantasies if you don't know them already. Tie her hands or blindfold, if she is okay with that. A lot of women are turned on just by those fantasies alone. Bring that foreplay and you will be sure to bring her pleasure.

Teasing a woman all day long will make her want you the second you lay in bed. This will not only turn her on but you as well. Teasing a woman can make sex the best you have ever had. Teasing her can include kissing her, going down on her, sliding your hand up her skirt and maybe even sliding your fingers into her before she goes off to work. Call her at work and talk dirty to her and then just sweetly say you will talk to her later. When she gets home from work and sits down, slide her pants or skirt off from her and kiss her up and down her legs. After doing this, slide your tongue along her clitoris and then quickly into her. Blowing lightly onto her vagina will give her chills and make her feel so good. Teasing a woman will make for some mind blowing sex.

Guys are always thinking about how to turn a girl on but some succeed in actually turning off more often rather than turning on. If you want to start a sexual relationship with a girl who is a friend, nice friend of course, but what will make it happen is sometime remain unknown to you. So let's make up basic points on how to turn a girl on easily and succeed getting them into bed.

If you're one of those guys that can't figure girls out (theirs a lot of us) and you desperately want to get laid and turn a girl on, there is hope. The biggest question guys have when it comes to intimacy with a girl is: "how to turn a girl on?" Even if you've met the right girl, whether it's a one-night stand or a long-term relationship, you still have to know how to arouse her and create some sexual excitement. Here are six proven and highly effective ways to turn a girl on.

Turn a girl on by making a great impression - Ok, there's no-one-size-fits all solution for this. What impresses one girl may annoy another. Be yourself. This is important. Discuss a unique skill or talent that you're proud of. Not only will this make you stand out it will make you feel more confident about yourself. Special hint: Girls dig a guy who's confident!

The smile is the key to open up that positive place in a girl. It's a safe place. A sweet place. A girl sees a good smile and her mood automatically changes and she takes strong notice.And a real good smile is a huge turn on. Something quivers within them and their attraction levels toward you skyrockets.




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