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Thursday 12 September 2013

How To Talk To Girls

By Stella McLeod


Communication is an essential ingredient in any relationship. Even if you are still on the stage when you are about to start establishing a good relationship with a woman, communication still plays a vital role. Below are some things you should consider on how to talk to girls.What you can do is to approach her with a friendly hello. This will make her say hi in return. Afterward, you can ask her how she is doing and start on some light topics. Avoid talking a great deal if you do not want her to feel bored.You can politely ask all about her such as what and where she works or studies. These are the common things she is probably asked about. Your questions must be simple; yet, you should show your fascination for anything she tells you. Choose your words smartly so that you can ease her mind so she would open up more to you.A cheerful attitude will help any girl feel comfortable with you. Smile pleasantly at her if you want her to feel at ease in your company.

Another important tip on how to talk to girls is to ensure that you have enough things to say. When you start talking to a girl that you've just met, it is important to ensure that you keep the conversation going. It feels so awkward when a guy takes two minutes to think about what to say next. Automatically, you will know whether the girl wants to continue with the conversation after the first few words. Women are generally better at identifying men who are boring. So if you really want to understand the basics of how to talk to girls, then you need to learn to read the signs. Make sure that the girl is enjoying your talk.

It could be easy to impress her with your humor and charm. This will help you in befriending her. However, there are other things you need to do if you want her to like you more than a friend. Once she has warmed up to you, let her know you consider her more than a casual friend. Make it known to her your intentions of dating her. For this, you need to know how to sexually compliment her without making it seem you are harassing her.Compliments must be well blended with seriousness. While it is a must to have some flirty talk with her, remember to just keep things cool.Plenty of guys struggle to talk to girls, but there's no reason why it should be difficult. It may seem like some men are naturals at impressing women, but even if you don't fancy yourself as a conversationalist, you can learn how to successfully talk to women.The scariest part of talking to women is starting off that first conversation. This is where guys fail- not because they can't carry a conversation, but because they're too nervous to start one. Men try to think of something witty to say, and end up scaring themselves out of the idea of starting a conversation at all.You don't need to open with a great pick-up line. All you need to do is to say something, and make the conversation flow from there. If you can't think of anything, just ask her how her day has been.

Being different is central to successfully picking up women. So you may find it odd that I'm suggesting you can start by asking a bland question. It's not necessarily the best way to start, but it works- unless she's a real bitch, she'll respond. Once you get more confidence in talking to women, you can experiment with more novel ways of opening a conversation.You need to leave yourself somewhere to go after that first sentence. For example, if you ask her what time it is, she'll tell you- and the conversation will die there. Before you open your mouth, think about where you're going to go with the conversation.You don't want to bombard her with questions. It's a casual exchange, not a job interview. Any questions you ask should be open-ended and phrased as statements where possible, so she has to participate more in the conversation rather than giving simple yes/no answers.Awkward pauses don't just happen- you create them, and you can learn to avoid them. If she has just come to the end of a sentence, reply with another sentence, rather than saying something like "I see" and then waiting for her to talk again. Neither of you will have anything to say, and the conversation will falter.

Let's delve a little deeper. I really want to give you more of an insight into what is involved and what it is that you need to do to overcome the different setbacks you feel are insurmountable.PUA (Pick Up Artist) training is very necessary for you to become a real PUA artist and become adeptly expert at picking up women.Back to the pick up artist lessons, the first thing you will need to know is that there is a 3 SECOND RULE that all PUA's live by and believe me you will really need to know what this rule is, as it is the basis of all things to do with picking up women!

Sorry there is not time or space enough to go into detail here.Don't worry I am not trying to blind you by giving you just one or two good points, on these articles. This article is really meant to help you get up and running as a PUA.There is nothing worse or frustrating than when you are confronted with a situation where you see a woman that you would really like to talk to, but you feel completely paralyzed. You don't know what to say, you don't know what to do, you are frightened she will reject you, or maybe you actually say something and then become tongue tied and are at a loss as to how to take things further.

You want your conversation to be fun, so steer clear of any contentious topics such as religion and politics. It doesn't have to be a shallow conversation- you can get personal, but try to stick to positive topics. A good topic for the purpose of getting to know each other as well as having an enjoyable conversation is to ask her about her ambitions, and tell her about yours. Because people enjoy talking about their aspirations, she will be keen to tell you all about the future she has planned and will be pleased that someone has taken an interest.Creating sexual tension in the first conversation you have with her is important. You want her to want you, or nothing will come of the interaction. If you create interest, she will want to get in contact with you again. It's not enough to just get along well, or you could be banished to the friend zone (and while that's not the worst position to be in, there are certainly better positions to be had).

Girls reject advances from men for many different reasons and I categorically state that picking up women can be so, so easy, but I am beginning to waffle and I hate doing that, so, to get to the point, if you are interested in a woman that you regard as really beautiful, there is every chance that other men will think so to, meaning that advances from men must come fast and furious to her.So if she rejects your advance, it may not really be because she doesn't like you or the look of you. You must accept the rejection and move on!Sometimes the excuse is "I have a boyfriend!" Well come on, it could be true and her rejection of you is a legitimate one. Taking it personal is being a wimp, be a man, accept it and again I say to you pick yourself up and move on. Remember I am talking about turning you into a truly great PUA and teaching you how to pick up women, or should I say how to pick up girls, depending on your age.




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