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Saturday 2 February 2019

How To Get Past Raw Emotions

By Jose Roberts


It is not always that you want to express your emotions so that they are raw. You can't walk around being completely open all the time. You have to be in the right place to be vulnerable, with the right people. However, it is important to have raw emotions and to speak from the heart. This is not only going to help you, but it will help others as well.

People experience these types of emotions for a number of different reasons. Some people will not have learned how to control their emotions. Other people just don't know how to express themselves. There may be too much information coming in and you just need to escape from everything.

It can have something to do with to do with childhood distress or trauma which one has not dealt with. A child from a dysfunctional home will not have been taught how to cope on their own. They will still be facing terrible feelings based on what they have been through. It can relate to anxiety, with a lot of fear and panic. It especially happens when they are triggered.

Other things on a temporary nature can lead to these emotions brewing up. The individual often thinks that it is just temporary and they will get over it. However, it is not as simple as this. When you are facing a challenge in your life, you need to deal with it at the present time, otherwise you are going to be presented with other problems as well.

Fortunately, there are ways in which a person can control these emotions. There are people who are able to help treat a person who is suffering like this. Sometimes, a person will tend to get angry or fearful, and the therapist will have to work on practical skills for this. At first, they will usually look into talk therapy. But it is a good idea to experiment with various techniques.

Many people are not aware when they are going to experience these feelings and emotions. They can arise when they are out and about shopping in public. It can be important to look into a specific technique which is more specialized and this will help treat the client, depending on how they are suffering.

Learning specific breathing exercises are a bit like meditation as well. It helps you to keep you in the present moment. You will only focus on your breathing and nothing else. People who react quickly will benefit from this. There are also techniques to help them cope in these instances. It can especially be helpful for borderline patients who tend to react. DBT therapy can be helpful for this.

With fear, it is often negative thoughts which can bring you down. You begin to have a low self esteem and a low confidence level. A therapist who specializes in this techniques aims at helping the individual to become less skeptical and more positive about themselves and their surroundings. It will lead to a healthier lifestyle as well. Their relationships will improve and overall they will feel content from one day to the next. However, it is not something that is cured overnight, and one needs to be patient.




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