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Thursday 4 October 2018

Getting Yourself Back Together After The Moment Of Despair

By Sharon Richardson


Sometimes living feels like dying. It happens when everything around you is full of toxicity. You feel worthless if you keep on getting fired at any jobs you applied. You feel emotional pain when someone who you trusted very much suddenly betrays you. And you probably feel like dying when you lose someone very important to you. Those just fall on loneliness feeling and worse, it could lead to depression. Hope will still be there for you even after waking up from a morning of despair.

Tragedies could really affect the life of person. It is somehow like a huge storm suddenly changing everything around your and leaving you broken into pieces. As a result, fixing those broken pieces is difficult and it would take long for it to be fully recovered. Experiencing some tragic incidents has emotional impacts to people.

Even the society itself can turn into a toxic for you. Nowadays, people are attacking each other through social media. One fault then everybody starts to hate you for what you did and verbally assaults you with their online posts. As a result, you could not face the outside world you anymore.

Aside from that, your environment can also affect you. Discrimination and bullying are also happening nowadays that some humans lose their motivation to mingle with others. If this will keep on continue, more people will shut themselves down from the word.

When bad things happen to you, your life could not just remain stuck up with those things. You tend to grieve and then your family and friends try to help but you chose to push them away. They might not understand what you were going through but staying on that condition will not help.

Everyone experiencing that kind of emotion wanted it to fade. But how will that be achievable if you have no willingness to move forward? If you choose to remain that state, you may reach to a severe state to the point that nothing can help you anymore.

When you lost someone, cry and never hold back those tears. Allow that sadness and pain to enter your system and accept it. Acceptance would make things easier, however, do not make some actions to adhere that feeling. In other words, inflicting some physical pain in yourself will not greatly help. Just accept those feelings and let it out.

Afterwards, you also have to stop and move forward. But that would really take time to happen. Just remember not to rush yourself on healing that wound. Like they said, time heals wounds. When you feel like you are not hurting anymore, that would be the moment for you to make decisions.

Life gives you disheartening events. Nonetheless, you still have to face and fight it. Always remember you also cannot win it by yourself alone. You still need others and your willingness.




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